A serious conversation with my daughter, '딸과의 진진한 대화'

During the week I am so busy with my work, It's not easy to look after my children. After I finish my work, I set the table, make dinner, wash the dishes, help my children with their homework, after which I feel very tired so I take a rest by watching TV. Each day passes like this. Yesterday was Saturday so I was at home all day long. I had a serious conversation with my eldest daughter in a long time. I am not strict with my children and don't require them to get good grades at school but I do tell them that they should study very hard. After talking with her, her last words were touching. "I am so proud of you!" it made me feel very happy at the moment. 주중에는 일 때문에 바빠서 아이들 돌보기가 쉽지 않아요. 퇴근해서 집에 오면 저녁 준비하고 먹고 설거지 하고 아이들 숙제하는 것 도와주면 저도 지쳐서 TV를 보며 휴식을 취해요. 이렇게 하루가 지나가 버려요. 어제는 토요일이라 집에서 푹 쉬었어요. 오랜만에 큰딸과 진지한 대화를 나누는 시간을 가졌어요. 저는 아이들에게 공부를 잘해야 된다고 강요하지는 않지만 열심히 해야 된다고 말해요. 이런저런 얘기를 많이 했는데 큰딸이 마지막에 하는 말이 감동적이었어요. “난 엄마가 자랑스러워!” 순간 저는 너무 행복해졌어요

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